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Sex with my sex therapist

For some reason, my husband thinks that I am over sexed. The thing is, I do have a huge need for sex, and it was even a problem when I worked for London escorts. My colleagues there just to think that I was oversexed, and just too much into sex and porn. When I left London escorts, it became a really big problem for me. After a couple of months, I met my husband and once we got married it became an even bigger problem as well. He thought I was going to cool off once we got married, but I did not.

I am not so sure what my husband meant by cooling off once we got married. If you are a sexy sort of person, you are a sexy sort of person and marriage is not going to change. I said to my girlfriends at London escorts that I could not see anything changing at all, and the girls back at London escorts, could see where I was coming from. I did really feel that I was the odd one out, and I decided to seek some help. The truth is that seeking help made it even worse, and I lost my husband because I was over sexed.

My best friend at London escorts could not believe the day when I phoned her up and told her that I had split up with my husband. The truth was that I had an affair with my sex therapists. Anna, my best friend at London escorts, just took a big breathe as I told her and could not believe what she was wearing. Not only had I managed to turn on my sex therapist, I had managed to lose a husband in the process. It is all completely nuts and I feel really stupid.

I am lucky, because all of my friends at London escorts did support me, and in the end we managed to find a good rehab clinic. It is obvious that I have a really big problem with sex, and my former boss at London escorts, says that he does not want to go near me as I have a very sexy persona. The problem is that just is me, and the way I am. Since coming out of rehab, I have managed to come out of the habit a bit and I am sure that I am getting better at controlling my habit.

It seems so strange, and I realize what a stupid person I am. Thanks to the clinic, I have learned to control my urges and I am sure that I will be okay, but I am still annoyed at what happened. I am sure that If I would have stayed at my sexy London escort company, I would eventually have had problems with my sexuality as well but perhaps not to this extent. It was almost like something that needed to happen, and I am sure that things will get better and I am due for a refresher at the clinic.

Sex therapy made me an addict

Can sex therapy make you an addict? I used to have a friend who was addicted to dating London escorts. In the end he had maxed out all his credit card on London escorts and just knew he had to do something about it. The interesting thing was that he could not explain his need for dating escorts wherever he went, it was just one of those things he had to do and could not get enough of. It is a bit like me I suppose- sometimes I go overboard tidying up. My minimalism is a form of addiction to over tidiness.

My friend eventually found a good sex therapist who promised that she would help him overcome his addiction for London escorts. The NHS would not pay for it so my friend had to go through the painful process of explaining everything to his mom and dad. They did not have a lot of money but they managed to scrape together enough to pay for the start of their son’s treatment. Confessing to his parents that he had an addiction of dating London escorts was just as painful as not being able to pay his credit card bills my friend said.

After a month of treatment my friend said that he understood why he needed to date London escorts. It was a need to be loved and wanting to have the attention of a woman. The problem went back to his childhood when his mom worked all the time and he did not have anybody to look after and love him. London escorts made him feel loved it was as simple as that. His lack of maternal love in early life had in fact driven him into the arms of other women as an adult man. A perfectly reasonable explanation.

In the next couple of weeks the the therapist sat about working with my friend who said that he still felt he had a compulsion to see escorts in London. She said that she needed to replace this addiction to escorts in London with something else and gradually they started to explore new things to do together. As he had a very highly sexed nature, she suggested that he start to watch porn movies. It seemed like a really good idea at first but it only lead to another form of sex addiction. He started to watch all different porn movies and could only talk about porn.

My friend is still seeing a counselor but this new counselor is now fighting is porn movie addiction. One thing seem to have replaced the other. It is almost like a drug to him, he can’t live without porn movies or London escorts. He is struggling to hold down his job to pay off his debts he accumulated when he was dating escorts in London. In a recent move he sold his lap top so he is not encouraged to watch porn movies at home. However, everyday when he sits in front of his computer terminal at work, he fights the urge to porn movies online.

Improve Romance In Your Bedroom And Turn It Into A Love Oasis

Let’s not shy away from the topic of bedroom and sex. The environment plays a huge role on a person’s mood and some bedrooms feel as if it’s just for shuteye. If you and your partner go straight to sleep and just feel too tired to have sex in your bedroom, then it might be time to change the interiors. How do you increase intimacy and romance in this one place in your home or apartment?

Start with the bed or mattress. The bed should be comfortable and give enough body support, not just when you’re sleeping, but also for sex. You’ve had your share of hotel-like mattresses that are too hard or too soft; the type that make sex quite uncomfortable. Your bedroom should be different. Invest in a quality mattress and sturdy bed frame. In addition, buy great bedding. A comforter or duvet can keep both you and your partner warm and cozy. Keeping the place warm and a comfortable temperature can help relax body muscles and set a more sensual mood.

Declutter and remove anything that’s out of place. Keep office materials away from your bedroom. Take work and study to another place in the house. If possible, keep your laptop, TV, laundry, kid’s projects and other electronics out of the bedroom. The bedroom is a place to relax but not for playing Facebook games before you go to sleep. When you step into your bedroom, it should be just a place to rejuvenate and be romantic, just for you and your partner.

Romantic decoration. We’re not talking about placing handcuffs permanently on your headboard (but keep one handy in the side drawer). Decorate the interior with sensual colors. Earthy tones on the walls like beige, mocha, dark cream create a relaxing aura. If you opt for solid colors, try deep hues of blue or rich eggplant or violet. Nothing beats red, of course; pair it with gold and French style furniture and everything becomes bold and sexy. Be careful though. Too much can be uninviting.

Sheer and glimmering silk sheets can also add glamour and romance. Install a soft flowing drape canopy on top of the bed. The intimacy creates an interesting focal point in the bedroom and adds a sense of privacy.

Dim lighting can set the mood. We wake up and work on bright lights, so go for the opposite in the bedroom. Don’t put bright lamps above the bed. Dimmer and subtle lighting sets a relaxed, seductive and romantic tone. Soft scented candlelight can also be romantic but make sure it’s all far from drapes, blankets and any fire hazard materials.

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